Fourth, if they do accept the LGBTQ+ community, then be prepared for them to stay silent about it and then they might respond negatively (with the “you’re too young to know, or “you haven’t dated boys, how do you know you don’t like them?”). Third, make sure you know that who ever you want to come out accepts the LGBTQ+ community, otherwise it will make it really hard. Second, if you know someone who is part of the LGBTQ+ community then definitely talk to them about how they came out. First, don’t come out if you are feeling angry or during an argument, pick a time where everyone(including who ever you want to come out with) is relaxed. ReplyĬoming out is hard, but here’s my advice. Obviously I know ultimately the only person who can answer these questions is my self, but any help would be appreciated. As you can see I have much turmoil over this. But then some days I feel like I’m only attracted to more masculine females and I only think I’m attracted to guys because society has told me I have to be. Can I still identify as bisexual if I’m mainly attracted to masculine personalities/how someone dresses? Or should I just identify as queer? I don’t feel that queer is right though, I feel like for my own personal confidence I would want a more definitive label (not that queer isn’t definitive for other people, in my mind bisexual is just more clear to me) so I feel like bisexual would be better. I put this in the quiz and it came back gay/queer. I find that I’m attracted to both genders so I identify as bisexual (in a cisgender female) but I also know I’m mainly attracted to masculine people (men and women, it doesn’t matter) I’m not as attracted to feminine people. I’d like to be in a relationship with a girl but it feels strange to think about it) and boys in skirts (or any other gender in skirts)Īnd… how do I know that I like all genders when I don’t know all genders? Reply it’s super nice but it feels strange to think about it. Omnis can have preferences right? Can they have or does every omnisexual person has a preference?įirst I had girls as a preference but now…Īll I can think about are girls (but not in a relationship. The difference between Omni and pan is that pan people don’t notice gender (?) and omnis do ? I think that would help me better than just imagine things I want to fall in love with the same gender cause I only fell in love with boys yet
I mean I’d like a boy or girlfriend who has a good character and so on but also looks good…Īnd btw I am just questioning myself right now. I feel like pan but in my head is just omnisexualīut isn’t it Normal or care about the personality too?